Saturday, June 21, 2014

Thoughts on Forest Grove and 6-15-14 Sermon

I have not posted recently for several reasons. One, I forgot to record several weeks of sermons. Reason? I was caught up in the PEOPLE of Forest Grove and forgot to hit record prior to the service! I will miss worshiping with these special folk. I will miss laughing with them, crying with them, grieving with them, eating with them and just hanging out with them. They will always be in my heart and one day I hope we return to enjoy all of the above with each of them. ~Peggi

To listen to the sermon from June 15th, click here.


the church god blesses
ACTS 2: The Pentecost Model of the First Church
06-15-14 Sermon

 

TO RECEIVE GOD’S BLESSING …




1.            WE MUST __________________________________________________           
            “They continually met together to pray as a group with one purpose in mind…”                                                             Acts 1:14

       “When the day of Pentecost came, they were all together in one place.  Suddenly a noise like a strong, blowing wind came from heaven and filled the whole house where they were sitting. They saw something like flames of fire that were separated and stood over each person there. They were all filled with the Holy Spirit, and they began to speak different languages by the power the Holy Spirit was giving them.”  Acts 2:1-4 (NCV)

       “Everyone was filled with awe, and many wonders and miraculous signs were done by the apostles.”  Acts 2:43




2.             WE MUST __________________________________________________
       “Then Peter stood up and said… ‘These people are not drunk, as you suppose; it is only nine o'clock in the morning!  God says, ‘I will pour out my Spirit ON EVERYONE.  Your sons and daughters will proclaim my message; your young men will see visions, and your old men will have dreams.  Yes, even on my servants, both men and women, I will pour out my Spirit in those days, and they will ALL proclaim my message…. Then, EVERYONE who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.’”  Acts 2:14-18, 21




3.   WE MUST ___________________________________________________
            “They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching…” Acts 2:42a

       “Peter addressed the crowd: ‘… let me explain this to you … This is that which was spoken by the prophet Joel…  I will show wonders in the heaven above and signs on the earth below…  And EVERYONE who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.’” 
       Acts 2:14, 16, 19, 21 









4.              WE MUST _______________________________________________
       “… They took part in the fellowship, and sharing in fellowship meals and in praying together…”      Acts 2:42b (TEV)
                                    they were like family to each other” (CEV)

                “All the believers continued together in close fellowshipActs 2:44 (TEV)
                                        “they lived in wonderful harmony” (MSG)

       “….they met in small groups IN HOMES for communion, and shared meals with great joy and thankfulness.”  Acts 2:46b (LB)




5.  WE MUST _________________________________________________
       “They continued to WORSHIP TOGETHER in the TEMPLE COURTS… PRAISING God and ENJOYING the favor of all the people.”  Acts 2:46-47

        “You’ve shown me the paths that lead to life, and your presence fills me with joy!”  
            Acts 2:28 (TEV)

             “Because of this, my heart will be glad, my words will be joyful, and I will live in hope!”             Acts 2:26 (CEV)

           



6.            WE MUST __________________________________________________
            “Those who accepted his message were baptized, and about three thousand were added to             their number that day!”   Acts 2:40-41

       “People liked what they saw. So every day their number grew as God added those who were saved.”     Acts 2:47 (MSG)     

       “You’ll receive power when the Holy Spirit comes on you and then you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem AND in Judea AND in Samaria, AND to the ends of the earth!"   Acts 1:8

THE CHURCH GOD BLESSES
ACTS 2: The Pentecost Model of the First Church
06-15-14 Sermon


If I were to ask you what’s the most important holiday in the church you would probably say Easter.  Because that’s when Jesus rose from the dead.  And if I were to ask you the second most important holiday you would probably say Christmas because that’s when Jesus was born.  But it wasn’t until much later in the history of the church that they celebrated Christmas, and the early church really didn’t celebrate Easter by itself, either.  The most important holiday for the early church was the Great Fifty Days, the time period starting with Easter and ending with Pentecost.

Last Sunday was Pentecost Sunday.  Pentecost is the Greek word for “fiftieth day.”  It is the fiftieth day after Easter.  You know what happened on the fiftieth day after Easter?  The church was born.  Pentecost is the birthday of the Christian church. 

Why is that important?  Because the church is the only thing that’s going to last for eternity.  Nothing else on this planet or in this universe is going to last for eternity.  The Bible says that one day God’s going to start all over with a new heaven and a new earth.  But the only thing that’s going to go on from this one, from is God’s family.  That’s the church.  That’s you and me – people who have put our faith in Jesus Christ.  The church is going to last forever. 

No local church lasts forever.  None of the churches that are in the Bible exist today because the church is like human beings, like bodies.  They grow, they develop, they get mature, they reproduce and then they die.  But some churches have a premature death.  I’m interested in that.  Because as your pastor I want this church to stay alive and vital and vibrant. 

If you go to Europe you can see many gorgeous, beautiful cathedrals, stained glass, stunning art work, intricate architecture.  And inside five, ten people there.  The glory has departed.  The building is still very beautiful but the church inside has died. 

What causes a church to die?  The people stopped doing the things that God created the church to do.  What keeps a church alive and vibrant?  The blessing of God.  When God blesses a church it continues to thrive, marriages are saved, lives are changed, broken people are put back together, people get out of debt, people are healed, people come to know God.  All kinds of miracles happen.  People’s lives are dramatically changed when a church is being blessed by God.

And there are people here at this church who can testify of those kinds of miracles happening in their lives as a result of their coming to this church.  You are being blessed because of God’s blessing on this church.

So how do we keep God’s blessing?  To keep God’s blessing we just have to continue doing the things that God told the church to do.

I want us to go back today, and look at the very first church and the day it was born.  Because the day you were born, you had all of the DNA you needed for your life.  You didn’t get any more dna as you grew older.  And everything we need for God’s blessing was put in the dna of the original church in the book of Acts, chapter 2, as the church of Jerusalem was the first church.

What we find are the six things that God says you must do if you want God’s blessing on your church.  Acts 2 tells us six things.

1.    The first thing we do in a New Testament church is we must pray for God’s power.

That’s the starting point.  The presence of God’s power makes the church different from every other organization or group.  We have the Holy Spirit.  Microsoft doesn’t have the Holy Spirit to do its work.  Dell and General Electric and General Motors and Apple and all the other corporations –and all the other groups around the world – they don’t have God’s Holy Spirit.  No government has the Holy Spirit.  Only the church gets the Holy Spirit.  And he gives us power to do things that we couldn’t do on our own. 

God has given us enormous responsibility.  We are to populate heaven with unbelievers.  In other words, now that we know the Lord, we’re to share that good news with everybody else.  We’re to bring as many people with us into heaven.  We are to heal the sick and raise the dead and cast out demons and cleanse lepers. 

But God doesn’t expect us to do this on our own.  He gives us his power. And how do we get God’s power?  It’s not rocket science.  You get it one way.  Prayer.  We pray and we get power.  There is a direct connection between prayer and power.  Much prayer, much power.  Little prayer, little power.  No prayer, no power. 


Let me give you the background of this story.  Jesus died on the cross, was resurrected, walked around on the earth for another forty days.  Then he said, I’m going back to heaven and I want you to just wait and pray until I send my Spirit to fill you and live in you.  And that’s going to be the birth of the church. 

He had about a hundred twenty followers.  He had them gathered in a room.  They didn’t know how long they were going to have to wait.  But they waited and they prayed and they waited and they prayed and they waited and they prayed… it took them ten days.  On the fiftieth day after the resurrection – Pentecost – God sent his Spirit.  Jesus had said, Don’t you try to do anything with your life until I give you the power to do it.  Don’t go out and try to do it on your own; you’ll just fail.  But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes into your life.  Acts 1:8.

So that’s what they did.  Acts 1:14 “They continually met together to pray as a group with one purpose in mind…”  They are all praying together for one purpose.  And all they did was wait and pray. 

Then on the tenth day of prayer God sends his Spirit.  When the Spirit of God arrives on earth there are three amazing miracles.  They’re kind of weird but they’re amazing miracles that are going to be symbols of what the church is supposed to do. 

Acts 2:1 says “When the day of Pentecost came, they were all together in one place.  Suddenly a noise like strong, blowing wind [It wasn’t a wind; it says it was a noise like a strong blowing wind] came from heaven and filled the whole house where they were sitting.  They saw something like flames of fire [it doesn’t say it was fire; it says something that looked like flames of fire] that were separated and stood over each person there. [So over everybody’s head was a little flame of fire; that had to be weird] They were all filled with the Holy Spirit and they began to speak different languages by the power the Holy Spirit was giving them.”

On the very first day of the church, the day the church was born, there are three very powerful signs.  There’s a noise that sounds like a hurricane inside the building.  There’s a bright flame that looks like fire.  And everybody speaks in a foreign language.  Imagine that! 

Why did God do that?  These are three symbols of the dna of the church.  How do you know you’re part of the true church?  How do you know you’re part of the real deal, not some fake church, not some phony church, not some cult church?  How do you know the true church?  These six things that we’re going to look at tell us the marks of a true church.

The first one is this: he says there’s a noise like a hurricane, flame like fire, everybody spoke in a foreign language.  These symbols are that the church is to be powerful, on fire, and multi cultural.  He says you’ll know if it’s a real church when it has power to change people’s lives.  People’s lives are being changed; lives are being changed here at Forest Grove.  When people are on fire, they’re excited, there’s warmth.  People say, that’s exciting.  There’s a fire there.  And it’s multicultural.  People are speaking in different languages.  There are people in the church from many backgrounds.

The Bible says in Acts 2:43 “Everyone was filled with awe, and many wonders and miracles and miraculous signs were done by the apostles.” 

The power of God was displayed in that first church and it was seen in wonders, miracles and miraculous signs.  This summer you’re going to need God’s power in your life.  I want you to have more power at the end of the summer than you have now.  And power only comes one way – through prayer.

If we want God’s blessing we have to pray for power and…

2.    We must use every member’s talents.

That means yours.  In the first church there were no spectators.  One hundred percent participation.  There was no inactive member list.  One was saying, I put in my time, let someone else do it.  Every member was a minister.  There was no audience.  Everybody was in the army.  No one was AWOL.  All ages, both genders, multi cultural, multi ethnic. 

Acts 2:14-18 and 21 “Then Peter stood up and said… ‘These people are not drunk…”  All these people from all over the world had gathered in Jerusalem.  They see these people; they’re hearing a mighty sound like a hurricane.  They’re seeing little flames like fire, on people’s heads.  And these guys are talking in their language and they shouldn’t be able to speak to them in their language.  Kind of weird!  So Peter stands up and says, let me explain.  “These people are not drunk, as you suppose; it is only nine o’clock in the morning! God says… I will pour out my Spirit on everyone.  Your sons and daughters will proclaim my message; your young men will see visions, and your old men will have dreams.  Yes, even on my servants, both men and women, I will pour out my Spirit in those days, and they will all proclaim my message…  Then, everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.”

I want you to circle six words.  Circle “sons” and “daughters.”  Circle “young” and “old.”  And circle the word “men” and “women.”  Sons and daughters, young and old, men and women.  God says I’m going to use all these people for my glory, my purpose.  Sons and daughters, men and women, young and old. 

Who does that exclude?  Nobody! 

So here’s the point.  You can’t sit on the side line.  Because you’re either young or old, a man or a woman, or a son or a daughter.  God says I’m going to put my Spirit in you.  Young or old, man or woman, son or daughter.  And I’m going to use you.  And I’ve given you certain talents that I want you to use and when you use them for me then I’m going to bless you.  Plus, I will put my Spirit in you and enable you to do things that go far beyond your talents and abilities.

There’s plenty of churches where you can just go sit, listen, and go home – Sit, soak and sour.  And you don’t have to do anything.  Nobody’s going to challenge you.  The pastor’s not going to say, be involved in a ministry or be involved in a small group.  Just sit, soak and sour.  You can sit passively and they’ll never ask or expect anything of you. 

That’s not this church.  If you’re going to come to this church I’m going to challenge you to use your life for something bigger than yourself.  I’m going to challenge you to use your life for something more important than you.  I’m going to challenge you to seek first the kingdom of God and all these other things will be added to you, which is God’s promise.  To be everything that God wants you to be.

It says, God’s going to use all ages, both genders, everybody, all nationalities in the church.

The third dna of the church God blesses is,

3.    We must be devoted to God’s Word.

That’s the fourth dna.  We must be devoted to God’s Word.  We hear it, we read it, we study it, we memorize it, we meditate on it.    Acts 2:42 “They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching…”

What is the apostles’ teaching?  It’s the Bible and what they heard from God.  The apostles wrote the New Testament.  The church that God blesses is built on the Bible and what we hear from God today..  The family God blesses is built on the Bible and hearing from God.  The life God blesses is built on the Bible and hearing from God.  Not self-help psychology.    Only the truth sets us free.  But we can’t just study the Bible.  A lot of churches study the Bible.  We have to put it into practice.  We have to go out and do things in the community.  We have to be doers of the Word and not just hearers. 

In the 9 years that I have been here I have preached over 400 sermons at Forest Grove Church.  I only repeated 3 or 4 of them.  How many did you hear?  How many did you do?

4.    If we want God’s blessing we must love each other deeply.

This is part of the dna of the church.  Growing churches love and loving churches grow. 

What do you call it when Christians love each other?  The Bible word for that is fellowship.  Fellowship.  The Greek word is the word koinonia which means being as committed to each other as we are to Jesus Christ.  In the first church they took care of each other.  They genuinely loved each other.  They treated each other like family. 

Acts 2:42 says this “They took part in the fellowship, and the sharing in fellowship meals and in praying together.”  The Contemporary English Version says they were more like family to each other. 

When the first church started two thousand years ago they were really ridiculed by the Roman Empire.  In fact, it was against the law to be a Christian so you could be killed if you were a Christian.  The Roman Empire didn’t understand Christianity.  They didn’t understand the church.  In fact, they thought the Christians were a bunch of wackos.  They said actually they’re cannibals.  You know where they got that?  Because they’d heard they did a thing called the Lord’s Supper where we eat the body and blood of Jesus Christ.  They’re cannibals.  Those guys are weird.  They had all kinds of strange beliefs about Christianity.  But the one thing they said about Christians was, those guys really love each other.  No doubt about it.  Christians love each other more than other people do.  They really do take care of each other.  They watch each other’s back.  They defend each other.  They love each other. 

Is that what Christianity is known for today?  I don’t think so.  We’re known more for what we’re against than for our love.  I think Christianity should be known for what we’re for, not for what we’re against. 

There are some things you have to be against because there’s a war between good and evil.  When you’re neutral you’re an ally of Satan.  You have to be against some things in life.  But you should be known for what you’re for; and we should be known for love.

Twice in the Bible, in the New Testament, it says “Greet one another with a holy kiss.”  We don’t do that anymore.  They still do it in the Middle East and some places like that.   But we don’t do it in America.  The interesting thing about the holy kiss tradition is that for three hundred years, every time Christians saw each other – in the grocery store or anything – they kissed each other.  Because the Bible said greet each other with a holy kiss. 

We need to love each other deeply.  Verse 44 “All the believers continued together in close fellowship.”  The Message paraphrase says “They lived in wonderful harmony.”  How did they do this?  How did they show love to each other?  Not in a big group like this.  They did it in small groups.  Verse 46 “They met in small groups in homes for communion, and shared their meals with great joy and thankfulness.”

If we want God’s blessing on our church, our families, in our lives,

5.    We must worship with joy.

God wants worship to be a festival not a funeral.  He wants us to celebrate not commiserate.  Some churches die because honestly they’re just cold.  They don’t have fun.  They don’t party.  They don’t celebrate.  They don’t worship with joy.  They worship out of duty.

You’ve been in these cold churches.  They’re so cold the ushers ice skate up and down the aisle taking the offering.  It’s the First Church of the Frigid Air.  You look down in front to make sure there’s not a coffin in front, that nobody’s died.  Something has died.  The people have died. 

A woman went to another well known church.  It was a little bit more formal than her church, more up tight.  At one point she said, Praise the Lord!  She got excited.  That’s right!  That’s good!  Amen!  And an usher came up and said, “Ma’am you’re going to have to be quiet.  She said, I’m just so full of the joy of the Lord.  He said, well you didn’t get that here!

What kind of worship attracts people?  Happy worship.  I’ll be honest with you.  I’ll tell you my bias.  I believe it ought to be fun to go to church; I really do.  Jesus is alive.  My sins are forgiven.  I’m going to heaven.  We’ve been given the Holy Spirit to empower us to do everything that Jesus did.  That’s cool! 

There’s so much bad news in the world the last thing you need to do is come to church and get more bad news.  You don’t need that.  All week you get the joy kicked out of you.  Some of you, you come to church on a weekend.  You’re emotionally drained.  And Forest Grove church has these spiritual jumper cables to recharge you.

Worship only recharges you if you participate.  If you just stand there, you don’t sing the songs, you don’t get involved, you stamp down all your emotions, that’s not going to help you at all.  You were made to express your emotions.  You are emotional because God made you emotional.  If you don’t learn how to express your emotions it’s like shaking up a coke bottle.  It’s going to pop some day.  So you’re worried about what are other people going to think if you express some emotion.  What do you care about what other people think?  Really.  Church is meant to renew your emotions on a weekly basis, give you an emotional lift.  It’s not going to do that unless you participate.

You need to learn how to get excited about God.  Worship is meant to be a celebration, to be fun.  The Bible says in Acts 2 “They continued to worship together in the temple courts… praising God [praising means joy] and enjoying [circle “enjoy.”  You should enjoy worship.  ] the favor of all the people.”

How do you do that?  Look at these other verses in Peter’s sermon.  Verse 28 “You’ve shown me the paths that lead to life, and your presence fills me with joy!” God means worship to be joyful not a duty. 

Verse 26 “Because of this, my heart will be glad, my words will be joyful, and I will live in hope!”  There are two reasons why you need to worship God joyfully.  The first is it’s good for your own emotional health.  You need it.  You need an emotional release every week.  And second, it’s a good witness to other people.

Friends, there are two reasons why many people who don’t know Jesus reject him.  There are two reasons why lost people don’t come to Christ.  One, they’ve never met a Christian.  And two, they have. 

They go, if being a Christian means being as cranky as that guy, forget it.  Some people are poor witnesses for Jesus because it’s like they’re spiritually constipated.  They’re all bound up inside.  They’re cranky and judgmental and legalistic.  I don’t want to be a Christian like that.  If that’s what it means to follow Jesus, no thanks, Jesus.  We’ve got to get the “J” factor, the joy factor back up in your life. 

And finally,

6.    If we want God’s blessing, we must bring others to Jesus. 

We bring others to Jesus.  That’s the sixth thing that brings the blessing of God in my life and on the church.  Verse 40-41 says “Those who accepted his message [Peter’s message] were baptized, and about three thousand people were added to their number that day!”  They baptized three thousand people on that day.  They became a mega church the first day of the church.  This church is only one day old and it’s got three thousand baptized members.  There were thousands of people on the first day.  It wasn’t a small church.  It had three thousand people the first day of the church.  And they were reaching out to people.

At Forest Grove church we received 45 new members in the last 9 years.  At annual conference our bishop told us that our churches should have a sign on one pew that read:  Reserved for the next 50 disciples who will come and be a part of this church in the next 9 years.

Verse 47 says this in the Message paraphrase “People liked what they saw. So every day their number grew as God added those who were saved.”

Circle the phrase “liked what they saw.”  Listen closely. You know that friend, that neighbor that you have that’s headed for hell?  You want them in heaven before summer’s over.  I want them in heaven before summer’s over.  More than that, God wants them in heaven before summer’s over. 

How do I reach my friend who doesn’t know the Lord?  It says “They liked what they saw.”  When people like what they see they’ll listen to what we say.  But they’re not going to listen to what we say until they like what they see.  Before people trust Jesus they’ve got to trust you.  Before people want to know, is the Bible credible?  They want to know, are you credible?  Are you real?  And how do you be real?  You just love people.  Whatever you like to do, whatever fun thing you like to do – if it’s taking your kids to sports events, whatever you like to do, this summer just do it with lost people.  With people who don’t know Jesus yet.  With people who Jesus died for.  Show that love to them.  If people like what they see, they’ll listen to what we say.

And the opposite of that is also true.  If people don’t like what they see and they don’t like what they hear, they won’t listen to what we say.  So for example, if a person talks to other people in the community about their church in a negative way, and tells them all the faults and failures of their pastor, and the faults and failures of the church members, and all about that terrible annual conference, and all about their bad bishop and all about the problems in the United Methodist denomination what do you think the chances are that those people will want to come to that person’s church?  I mean, if it is all that bad, why do they still go there?  No one wants to go try out a church that is filled with all that negative stuff going on!  They already have enough negative stuff going on in their life, they don’t need another load of bad news.

The other thing that is wrong with that is that a church doesn’t have to be perfect for God to bless it.  All the letters of the New Testament were written to churches with problems.  Some with very serious problems.  But God loved them and had Paul and Peter and John write letters to them to correct what was wrong and build them up

When we do what God commands we get his blessing.

This is from the first church.  “You’ll receive power when the Holy Spirit comes upon you and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, and in Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth!”  He says you’re to take the message to your own city, then to the county, then to the state, and then to the whole world.  I didn’t make that up.  Jesus did.  The reason why God blesses a church is because the church does what God says to do.  And as long as we do what God says to do, go to the whole world, then we’re going to have God’s blessing on our families, on our lives, on our church, on our community. 


Prayer:

      Father, I love these people.  I thank you for our church family.  We really do have fun being a part of your family.  Help us to pray for power.  Help us to use every language that you’ve given us.  To use our talents that you’ve given us.  Help us to be devoted to your Word and hearing from you.  Help us to love each other deeply.  Help us to worship with joy, to be willing to sacrifice and to bring others to Jesus.

      If you’ve never invited Jesus into your life say, Jesus come into my life right now.  Make yourself real to me.  I don’t understand it all but as much as I know how I want to open my life to you.  I want to begin to follow you and to learn to love and trust you.  In your name I pray.  Amen.

Sunday, May 18, 2014

5-18-14 Sermon, "Delayed By Design"

To listen to today's sermon, click here (I'm sorry its still kind of "tinny" - can't figure out how to record directly through the system).


DELAYED BY DESIGN
The 6 Phases of Faith -- Part 4
05-18-14 Sermon

How does God use delays?

1.    God uses delays to P_________________________________________ 

"When Pharaoh let the people go, God did not lead them (directly) though that way was shorter.  For God said, `If they face war, they might change their minds and return to Egypt'." Ex. 13:17 

2.    God uses delays to T______________________________________________

"...God led you through the wilderness for forty years...testing you to find out how you would respond and if you would obey Him."  Deut. 8:2 (LB)


What To Do While Waiting:


1.  DON'T F__________________________________________________

            "...They would not enter the land.  They said... `We are afraid ... The people there are             stronger and taller than we are..."  Deut 1:26 + 28 (GN)

                        Instead:  _________________________________________

            "Fear not, for I am with you.  Do not be dismayed.  I am your God, I will strengthen             you and I will help you... and uphold you..."  Isa 41:10 (LB)



2. DON'T F__________________________________________________

            "...On the way the people lost their patience and spoke against God and Moses.  They             complained..."  Num 21:4-5 (GN)

            "Impatience will get you into trouble."  Pr. 19:2 (GN)

                        Instead:  _________________________________________

            "Rest in the Lord; wait patiently for Him to act ...  Don't fret and worry -- it only leads to             harm."  Ps. 37:7-8 (LB)

            "God has set the right time for everything."  Eccl. 3:11 (GN)

3.  DON'T F_________________________________________________           

"All the Israelites grumbled against Moses... `If only we had died in Egypt! ... We             should choose a leader and go back to Egypt.'"  Num. 14:2-4

                        Instead:  _________________________________________

            "Let us never grow tired of doing what's right, for if we do not faint, we'll reap a             harvest             at the right time."  Gal. 6-9 (Mof)

            "You need to pray continually and not lose heart."  Lk. 18:1 (JB)

"They that wait upon the Lord, shall renew their strength.  They shall mount up with wings, as eagles.  They shall run and not be weary.  They shall walk and not faint." 
Is. 40:31



4.  DON'T F_________________________________________________

            "They forgot the many times God showed them his love, and they rebelled ... at the             Red Sea.  But He saved them as He promised... But they quickly forgot again!  They             wouldn't wait for God to act..."  Ps. 106:7-8 (GN), 13 (LB)

                        Instead:  _________________________________________

            "I will bless the Lord and not forget the great things He does for me."  Ps. 103:2 (LB)

            "The Lord is not being slow to carry out his promises ...but He is being patient with you... Do not forget this one thing, my dear friends, that with the Lord one day is as a thousand years and a thousand years is like a day.  The Lord is not slow in keeping His promise."  "  2 Pet. 3:3-8 (JB)

            "These things won't happen right away.  Slowly, steadily, surely, the time approaches when the vision will be fulfilled.  If it seems slow, do not despair, for these things will surely             come to pass.  Just be patient!  They will not be overdue a single day!" 
            Hab 2:3 (LB)




DELAYED BY DESIGN
The Six Phases of Faith  Part 4
05-18-14 Sermon
Exodus 13:17 & Deut 8:2


Life is filled with a lot of unanswered questions.  Like…

            If nothing sticks to Teflon, how do they make Teflon stick to the pan?
            Why do they put flotation devices under airplane seats instead of parachutes?
            Why do we drive on parkways and park on driveways?
If the Denny's restaurant  is open 24 hours a day, every day of the year, why do they have locks on the doors?
            Why are there interstate highways in Hawaii?
           
But the most perplexing questions of all are ones we want to ask God.  Many of us want to ask God, Why does He wait to answer prayers?  If He hears it immediately and has the power to do it, why the delay? 

Because it's part of Phase Three in the Six Phases of Faith.  Phase One is Dream -- God gives you a dream for your life.  Phase Two is Decision -- You've got to make the decision to go after the dream.  Today we're going to talk about Delay -- there's inevitably a delay.  Then comes Difficulty, then Dead End, and finally Deliverance.

God uses these phases in your life to teach you about faith. 

There's always a waiting period.  Dreams are never fulfilled immediately.  Abraham had the dream of being the father of a great nation and he waited 90 years before he was even told he was going to have a son.  Noah had the dream of building an arc but it took him 120 years.  A long wait.  Joseph was going to be the ruler in Egypt, yet he spent years in prison, waiting and waiting.  David was anointed king, but he didn't become a king immediately.  He was chased all around the country by Saul.  There's always a delay period.

The classic story is of the children of Israel who were brought out of Egypt and then wandered around for forty years before they went into the Promised Land.  It's only about two weeks walk between Egypt and Israel.  It took them 40 years.  What in the world were they doing? 

How does God use delays?

1.  God uses delays to prepare us.  The Israelites weren't prepared for war, and God was afraid if they went to war they wouldn't be able to handle it.  Every dream has difficulties.  God uses delays to get us ready for those difficulties.  The delay here was designed by God.  God uses delays in your life to prepare us for difficulties that are ahead.

Exodus 13:17 "When Pharaoh let the people go, God did not lead them (directly), though that way was shorter.  For God said, `if they face war, they might change their minds and return to Egypt'."  They were Delayed by Design.  God had them wander around for 40 years. 

2.  God uses delays to test us.  Deut. 8:2 "God led you through the wilderness for forty years... testing you to find out how you would respond and if you would obey Him." 

How do you respond to delays?  God says it's a test of faith.  Your test of maturity is how well you handle the waiting rooms of life when things don't come immediately.  How do you respond?

Sadly, the children of Israel flunked this test.  They never got through Phase Three.  Only two Israelites who left Egypt actually got to go into the Promised Land.  A whole generation had to die in the desert.  The next generation got to go in.  Only two of the first generation -- Joshua and Caleb -- got to go in.  Why?  Because they did the wrong thing in the desert. 

When you're going through the delays in life, waiting for an answer to prayer there's four things God says don't do.  He says don't do these things because they prolong the delay. 
                       
1.  Don't Fear

This is the first mistake the Israelites made.  There are a lot of reasons for the delays that happen in your life but this one is your own fault.  God says don't be afraid.  "They would not enter the land.  They said  `We are afraid... The people there are stronger and taller than we are..."  They had enough faith to move out of Egypt but they didn't have enough faith to move into the Promised Land.  They were afraid. 

The problem with fear is that it keeps you in the wilderness, in the desert of life, the barren stage.  It prolongs the delay.  Many of your dreams have never been fulfilled, not because of God, but because of you.  Because you wouldn't step out in faith.  "One of these days..." The bottom line is fear.  God says Don't fear. Fear causes the delays in your life and keeps you from moving ahead.

Instead:  focus on God's presence.  The antidote to fear is to realize that God is with you.  When you're afraid to go after the dream God has given you, you need to focus on God's presence.  He says, "I will always be with you."  There will never be a time in your life when God is not with you.  He's with you now, He always has been and He always will be.  He's with you on your good days and your bad days.  He's with you when you feel it and He's with you when you don't feel it.  God says "I will always be with you."

"Fear not, for I am with you.  Do not be dismayed.  I am your God, I will strengthen             you and I will help you... and uphold you..."  Isa 41:10 (LB)


There are 365 "fear nots" in the Bible -- that's one for every day of the year.  God is saying, no matter what you're facing don't be afraid.  "Fear not, for I am with you."  Not because of positive thinking or motivational tapes or pulling yourself up by the psychological bootstraps.  You'll never face any situation in life that God isn't facing it with you.  We tend to forget that, and when we do we start being afraid.  Don't fear but focus on God's presence -- He's with you all the time.

Some of you are in the delay phase right now.  You've been praying about something and it hasn't happened yet.  You start to think that God has forgotten you.  God has not forgotten you.  He knows what you're going through.  It is a delay by design.  God wants to build your character and He wants you to learn to trust in Him.  You can count on Him for His help.  Don't fear.


2.  Don't Fret

Fret means worry.  Don't get worried.  Don't get uptight.  Don't complain.  We do that when we get into Delays.  We worry, get uptight, get stressed out, start griping.  This was the second response of the Israelites. 

Num 21:4-5 "On the way the people lost their patience and spoke against God and Moses.  They complained..." 

This is typical of people, but this was the sin that kept them out of the Promised Land.  They just griped all the time, no matter what God had done for them -- the Ten Plagues, the opening of the Red Sea.  They complained about the journey, the delay, the leadership, no water -- then God provided them water.  Then they complained about no food -- and God provided them food.  Then they complained about the food they got.  It's so easy to gripe when we're forced to wait.  We don't mind waiting if we can complain about it. 

God says don't fret, don't worry, don't get uptight about it.  When we really grumble is when we're waiting for God to act.  We get in a hurry.  Prov. 19:2 "Impatience will get you into trouble."  When we try to take matters into our own hands we get in trouble.  We try to help God out.  It's frustrating to be in a hurry and God isn't.  God is never in a hurry.  The Bible says with Him, a day is like a thousand years and a thousand years like a day.  He's larger than time.  One of the most useless things to try to do is to speed up God. 

When you get impatient you start trying to work it out yourself.  You get a dream from God, make the decision to go for it, and then when the delay comes and it's not fast enough for you, you start trying to figure out ways of doing God's dream on your own.  You start trying to force the issue. 

Abraham did this.  God said He was going to give him a son.  At 75 Abraham still didn't have one.  Sarah was incapable of conceiving.  He decided to have a child by Hagar, Sarah's hand maiden.  Hagar gets pregnant and bears a son.  They name him Ishmael.  Abraham thought he had the miracle child in Ishmael.  God said that Ishmael was not the miracle.  That was just a normal conception.  He wasn't the baby God said would be the miracle baby.  God blessed Ishmael anyway and he also became the father of a great nation.  He's the father of all the Arabs. 

But God said there would be another child.  Later Abraham had Isaac through Sarah who was way up in years and although she had never been able to have a child, at a grandmother's age she had a baby.  Isaac became the father of the Jewish nation.

All of the commotion in the Middle East between Arabs and Jews is just a family feud.  It's been going on for thousands of years because Abraham got in a hurry.  Ishmael and Isaac were half brothers.  Whenever you hear of Arabs being anti-Semitic -- that's impossible.  Both Arabs and Jews have the same father -- Abraham.  Because Abraham got in a hurry, we've had thousands of years of conflict.  Impatience will get you into trouble.  God doesn't need your help.  You need to relax. 

Don't fret, Instead:  trust God's timing.  Psalm 37:7-8 "Rest in the Lord, wait patiently for Him to act.  Don't fret and worry.  It only leads to harm."  Resting can be an act of faith.  It means you're waiting on God.  One time, Jesus and the disciples were in a boat and Jesus fell asleep.  A big storm came up and the disciples freak out.  Jesus is in the corner of the boat sleeping.  They wake Jesus up,  Why are you sleeping?  "Do you think God is going to let the boat sink with Me in it?"   Jesus, by His sleeping, was saying, I can trust God even in the middle of a storm.  I don't have to worry about it.

When we get into a storm, we lay awake all night.  And we fret about it.  The very fact that we're laying awake at night means we're not living by faith.  We can't get any sleep because we don't really trust God to work it out.  God says, "Don't fear, don't fret.  Remember I'm always with you and trust My timing." 

The verse says "Wait patiently for Him to act."  When you wait impatiently it doesn't make waiting any better.  All being impatient does is make you miserable. 

"Don't fret and worry.  It only leads to harm."  Worry doesn't work.  It just makes you miserable.  So stop worrying and start trusting God. 

Eccl. 3:11 "God has set the right time for everything."  God's timing is perfect. 

I believe of the Six Phases, for Americans, Phase Three is the most difficult Phase.  We don't like to wait.  Americans are activists -- doers.  We think it's far easier to work than wait.  If I can do something about the problem in my home, do something about the problem in my body, do something about the problem at work, or even do something about the problem in your life -- then I'm Mr. Fixer.  God says I'll fix it if you just wait.  It's the delay that's building your character.  He can fix it better than you can.





3.  Don't Faint

When you go through the delays in life don't faint -- don't get discouraged.  Don't lose heart.  Don't give up.  This is the third thing the Israelites did and it kept them out of the promised land.  Numbers 14 "All the Israelites grumbled against Moses... `If only we had died in Egypt! ... We should choose a leader and go back to Egypt."  They gave up on their dream.  They caved in.  They had been in slavery 400 years but now because they are having a little bit of delay they want to go back to Egypt.  "If only" and "go back" are phrases that are tell-tale signs you're discouraged -- that you're fainting, losing heart. 

If only --  means we start to second guess ourselves.  When we get a dream from God, make the decision to go for it and if it doesn't come immediately we start second guessing ourselves -- "Maybe I didn't really hear from God.  Maybe I just made this up.  Maybe God is not listening and He doesn't care. If only I'd done something different.  If only I'd done this or that..."  We second guess ourselves.

And then we say "Let's go back to Egypt."  When we go through the delay phase of life we tend to idealize the past.  We talk about the good old days -- which really weren't that good.  The only thing good about them is they're over.  The grass isn't greener on this or that side of the fence -- it's greener where you water it.  The good old days always look better in hind sight than they really were.  We get into a project, start having a delay, and then want to give up.  The Israelites had been in slavery in Egypt. 

Some people would rather live in slavery than face the fear of freedom.  They are not willing to push through and work on the problem until they get it right.  They want to go back, give up.  They settle for mediocrity in life.  Don't settle for less than God's best for your life.  If that means going through a tunnel of conflict, take the tunnel.  In the middle of the tunnel it's dark and you want to run back to the light.  But you've got to keep going and you'll come out in the light on the other side.

Instead of fainting  -- be persistent and pray. 

Remember God told Joshua to march around the walls of Jericho and they'll all fall down.  It didn't happen the first time they did it.  They had to do it seven times.  Seven days in a row.  And on the seventh day they had to do it seven times.  Why the delay?  If God was going to make the walls fall why didn't He make them fall the first time?  He was teaching them to be persistent and pray. 

Galatians 6:9 "Let us never grow tired of doing what's right, for if we do not faint, we'll reap a harvest at the right time."  This is the law of the harvest:  In life, you will reap whatever you sow.  What you plant you will sprout.  If you sow criticism, you will reap a lot of criticism in your life.  If you sow love, you will reap love back in your life.  If you sow generosity, you will reap back generosity.  It's one of the laws of the universe.  We'll always reap more than we sow.  If I plant one kernel of corn, do I get on kernel back?  No, I get a whole stalk with thousands on it.  You always reap more than you sow. 

But in the Law of the Harvest there is always a delay between sowing and reaping.  There's always a season.  You plant in one season and you reap in another.  There is a delay in between.  God wants to see if you're going to keep cultivating, planting, sowing -- see if you really mean business.  If God sees consistency in your life then the harvest comes.  It will not come immediately because it proves nothing if He does it immediately.  No delay, no character development, no stretching your faith. 

Calvin Coolidge:  "Nothing in this world can take the place of persistence. Talent will not.  There is nothing more common than unsuccessful men with talent.  Genius will not.  Unrewarded genius is almost a proverb.  Education will not.  The world is full of educated derelicts.  Persistence and determination, alone, omnipotent.  The slogan `Press on' has solved and always will solve the problems of the human race."

Jesus said that about 2000 years earlier.  Lk 18:1 "You need to pray continually and not lose heart."  Pray continually and lose heart are the two options you have in life.  You will always be doing one or the other.  If you pray continually you will not lose heart, you won't be discouraged.  If you don't pray continually, you will lose heart.  You will faint.  You will get discouraged by the problems you're facing in your life -- family, school, wherever.  You've got to keep on praying. 

What do I pray during the delay phases of life?  Pray "Help me hold on and not give up."  The Bible says, "They that wait upon the Lord, shall renew their strength.  They shall  mount up with wings, as eagles.  They shall run and not be weary.  They shall walk and not faint."  They won't give up.  They'll keep on keeping on. 


4.  Don't forget

During the delay, time causes us to forget many things.  When there is a delay, we tend to forget our dream.  We tend to forget what God had done in our life.  We tend to forget God's goodness to us in the past.  We tend to forget that God is with us.  We tend to forget God's power.  We tend to forget how important it is that we stay in God's strength and we start focusing on all our problems than on what He has done for us.  The Bible says, Don't forget.

This was the fourth mistake that the Israelites made out in the wilderness.  Ps. 106 tells us "They forgot the many times God showed them his love, and they rebelled at the Red Sea.  But He saved them as He promised.  But they quickly forgot again!  They wouldn't wait for God to act."  This says many times.  It's unbelievable how short their memory was.  In Egypt, God does ten plagues and the children of Israel forget it because a couple days later they're at the Red Sea and saying "We're all going to die!"  They've forgotten just what God's done.  God does a miracle and opens the Red Sea.  They walk through to the other side and immediately forget that miracle.  "We're going to die of thirst!"  God provides water miraculously.  They forget that and complain, "We're going to die -- no food!"  They were always forgetting. 

But we should not be too quick to judge them because we do the exact same thing.  When a delay occurs in our lives we start acting like God's never done anything for us.  Has God done things for you in the past?  Sure He has.  You can count on Him to do it tomorrow, or the next day...  When you act like, "God's not going to bail me out of this one!"  you're forgetting all the other times He's bailed you out.  Some of the times you didn't even know about it but He did. 

What have you been forgetting about God, how He's helped you so many times?

The consequences of forgetting the Bible says is "...they would not wait."  Instead of forgetting you remember God's promises.  There are over 7000 of them in the Bible.  When you have a problem, find a promise.  When you face a problem, look for a promise.  The promises are always greater than the problems you're facing.  Ps. 103 "I will bless the Lord and not forget the great things He does for me."  2 Pet. 3:3-8.  "The Lord is not being slow to carry out His promises but He is being patient with you."  You ask, Why isn't God fulfilling the promise in my life?  He's waiting on you.  You think you're waiting on God?  He's waiting on you to learn to not fear, not fret, not faint, not forget.  He wants you to learn that before He brings the solution.  He has some things He wants you to develop first, some growth patterns He wants you to put into your life.  God's never in a hurry.  He can do things immediately, but He's working on a larger agenda.  The delays that come in your life do not destroy God's purpose.  They fulfill God's purpose in your life.  They make you a better person.

What is it you've been waiting on God to do?  For Him to turn a problem around?  To answer a prayer?  To make a way in a place where it seems impossible for there to be a way, financially or physically or any other way?  Maybe you've been waiting on God to bring that right person along?  Maybe you've been waiting on God to turn a crisis into a solution?  God hasn't forgotten.  And a delay is not a denial.  Not yet is not the same thing as No. 

Hab. 2:3  "These things won't happen right away.  Slowly, steadily, surely, the time approaches when the vision will be fulfilled.  If it seems slow, do not despair, for these things will surely come to pass.  Just be patient!  They will not be overdue a single day!"

The things you've waited for in your life, God will bring to fulfillment if you do not faint, do not fret, do not fear, do not forget.